Many of our members ask us – “How will I know if a man is into me?”. Understanding how another person is feeling is easy when you know how people in love tend to behave. So, we have put together five signs he’s falling for you!
5 Signs He’s Falling in Love with You
- He communicates in an open and honest manner.
At the beginning of a relationship, people sometimes sugar coat or exaggerate parts of their lives. This can make their partner feel uncomfortable and unsure about how to proceed.
Often, we can usually tell when someone is hiding things from us. The energy in a room changes when dishonesty is present.
On the other hand, if a man is willing to be honest about anything that comes up within the relationship, his partner feels as though she can count on him.
A man who is prepared to be open and vulnerable with you, is a man who wants this relationship to feel real and authentic.
Encourage positive communication by being equally transparent.
- His Body Language Says ‘I Love You’
If a man maintains eye contact, shows physical affection, and has a relaxed posture around you, chances are he’s falling for you!
Equally, if you find your partner subconsciously mirroring your body language or posture, this may indicate a feeling of strong connection and camaraderie. Also look out for your partner speaking with their hands open and palms exposed; this indicates truthfulness and authenticity.
Here is a checklist of other key signs of male attraction:
- A quick rise and fall of the eyebrow, called “eyebrow flash”.
- Self-grooming, like stroking his tie or tousling his hair
- Hands on the hips and legs slightly spread
- An “open” facial expression
- Facial touch, which combines preening and sensual gestures
- He respects you
Respect is everything within a relationship and covers all areas of life.
A man who is falling in love with you will demonstrate respect in many ways. He will value your opinions, even when they differ from his. He will celebrate your successes and try to make your life easier in any way he can.
Respect means embracing a partner for their true, authentic self. It’s about being invested for the long-term.
If a man shows you a lack of respect, voice your concerns quickly and clearly. If he is not interested in reassessing his behaviour, it is time to move on.
- He is eager to introduce you to family and friends
When a man wants you to meet the people that are closest to him, it is highly likely he hopes you will be a significant part of his life. It shows he is proud to be with you and has nothing to hide.
If he is reluctant to introduce you to family and friends, ask him to explain his reasons.
Allowing each other to meet the significant people in your lives demonstrates not only commitment but trust.
- He is willing to make time for you.
One of the key complaints we hear from new couples is that they are not getting to see as much of each other as they would like.
When a man is falling in love, he will prioritise time with you. He will work hard to balance his professional and personal life, ensuring that you feel seen and heard.
Remember to reciprocate in terms of thoughtfulness and commitment. If you both feel valued, there is every chance your relationship will move from strength to strength.
Key Relationship Tip
Remember, communication is key in all relationships. Look out for the signs that he’s falling in love with you whilst sharing lots of great conversations about how the relationship is going.